Friends and Beyond

Many Women Wait For Their Knight In Shining Armor Before They Consider Living Life

Many women are victims of what is called the White Knight Syndrome and do not even realize it.  do what is the White Knight Syndrome.  This is when a women is waiting for the right guy, the perfect mate to come along and not only sweep them off their feet but take care of them forever.  So they wait around and not go on trips they might want ot go on or experience other types of activities the might be shared with a man of their dreams.  Time then moves on, the White Knight does not come and she feels like she has lost out on a part of her life.  Unfortunately, women blame men for this occurrance when it is not the fault of the male population.

Instead, ladies, you must start placing value on yourselves and taking your life as important enough to create memories even if they are with friends or even by yourself.  After all you should enjoy being in your own company.  It is amazing that when you begin to live your life instead of holding off, the right people including the right man will amazingly come into your life to share those experiences with you.  Your life will be fuller and you will be much happier to have and take advantage of the opportunity to grow on a personal level. 

Life is too short to spend it wondering what might have been if you had only stepped out.  Go to a show, go to the park, take a small trip and spend time walking on the beach.  These moments that you are giving up could be some of the best moments of your life.  You will find that you feel good about yourself and in order for your White Knight to show up, you will attract him sooner when you consider yourself a Princess.  After all, is it not the White Knight that captures the heart of the Princess?  As much as we as women want a fairytale life, the reality is that we must contribute to the story as well.  And happines is something that comes from within.  No one can make you happy but they can contribute to making you happier. So enjoy life and watch what happens.

Before Getting Married There Is One Important Subject That You Need To Discuss

Before making plans for a wedding after you say "I Do" there is some other planning that needs to take place.  These are the plans for your financial future.  Finances is one subject that most couples have no communication about before they take the ultimate walk down the aisle.  Yet, it the most import plans that need to be duscussed and agreed upon.  It is amazing when two people come together how different their approaches to money can be. 

Indeed this can be one of the most difficult conversations to have prior to marriage but this matter should be discussed before you decide how many will be attend the ceremony.  If you have this communication about the finances early in your relationship afeter you decide to tie the know you mostly likely will get off to a much better start.  There are several questions that you can ask to include the amount of accounts there are and what kind are they, how many credit card and their limits and balances to name two.  Obviously these alone could cause some discomfort in the evening conversations but without them you could be doomed to financial setbacks or blessed with a firm financial foundation. So before you say "I Do" do talk money.