Have you ever noticed that dogs and their owners begin to look like each other? Well the same thing begins to happen to women who are in a relationship that is not working or not right for them. They begin to determine their own worth by the circumstances arising for a defective or defaulted relationship. This is not always with just men, it can be that of friends and coworkers as well. But most of the time it is with the man they are spending their time with.
When you look at how a woman's life changes when a man enters the picture you will be amazed at how you, if you are female, tend to do the same thing. A day does not go by that you want to eat, sleep and breathe the presence of you current gentleman friend. Then wonder why they tend to want and need space a lot more than usual.
Women tend to forget they have friends and family that used to be a part of their lives when they were truely single. As a matter of fact it is healthy and highly recommended that a woman continue to spend an ample amount of time with her friends and loved ones. This way the need to control or over commit to their new found love is kept under control. Women are community creatures that need to chat consistantly whereas a male is more of a one man show. When a women has a problem or situation, they need to talk about it until they satisfy themselves or find a solution. A man on the other hand tends to want to find a corner of the world until they have found a reasonable solution to the situation or problem.
This is when you will hear..."What is wrong with me?" "What have I done?" "Why doesn't he want to spend time with me?" Immediately their sense of worth diminishes and the downhill slide begins. When a woman realizes that their worth has nothing to do with the solving of a problem or situation, they will find that they will experience a much happier and more successful relationship that is more likely to become fruitful as it grows.
A woman worth is determined by who she is and what she contributes to the world around her. Insecurity and self doubt do not have to be a part of that world. When she realizes that her happiness comes from within, those around her can and will feel the warmth and see the luminesence that comes from a woman who deems herself worthy of all the goodness available to her. It is then that she can truely give the gifts that she holds to those she cares about.


