Nowadays it is almost unusual to meet someone in person with all the online dating going on. Hopefully during your communication, you have developed some kind of friendship enough to eventually meet face to face. This can be nerve racking and the question will alsways pop up about how the first date will go or after the dat, how did it go. There are a few signs to watch for as you step into this new found arena.
First indicator is whether you are actually excited to go out with this person. If you do not have any of this excitement or notice the other person does not seem to have it then more than likely this date may not turn out well. Once past this point it is important if the gentleman has spent some time planning the date and not flying by the seat of his pants. Spontenuity is great but not on the first date. That is something that comes down the road when your dates turn into a relationship. If during your date either of you maintain a certain amount of eye contact and is free to laugh when something is humerous, that is a sign that your date is going well and there should be signs of a repeat occassion.
The most important thing to remember is that the first date is not the end of the world and the possible relationship is to be rushed. Take some time to get to know each other before jumping into an immediate gluing to the hips exclusivity. Too many times a couple breakups because they did not take the time to allow for a peaceful parting of the ways in the beginning when incompatibilty can and does rear it's head.
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