Have you noticed that at times you may get upset for a friend or family member only to find out that the occurrence or situation really was not a problem to them as much as it was to you. Many times we get caught up in a communication gap and are bent out of shape for someone else when really it is something we need to deal with ourselves. We think we are displaying loylty when in actuality it is our own story we are not will to acknowledge. We are really the ones who have the issue and project the unwillingness to face it onto someone else. This is usually friends or family. We say they ar uspset when really it is ourself that is upset. Have patience though because as soon as we begin to aknowledge that is is our story we can then recognized when smeone else is project in the same way as well. We can the remind them that the story is theirs and not yours. This way you will not get caught up in someone else's drama and prevent from getting others caught up in yours. This then hls to reshape our attitude and and the attitude or those around us. When you take ownership of your own story, you then can make adjustments to either continue or change the story that you have. We then become rsponsible for the outcome of our daily lives.
