It seem couples are breaking up at an alaming rate. There are severalthings to keep in mind when this happens. First of all if it i a marriage it is important to think and believe in rebuilding and not divorce. Remember that what you focus on will expand. This is true of divorce. If you constantly think of ending in divorce, the chances are that you will in fact end that way. A key thing to remember is that a separation of any kind is a cry for some space to think and regroup. Re evaluate the relationship and dedermine the reason you became a couple in the beginning. Are you still doing those things? If not then why? It is very important to be real in the beginning but even more important to be real in your re evaluation. Have patience that the best for both people involved will emerge. Should our re evaluation result in the common desire to reunite, focus on rebuilding a better foundation than the first so when the wins of adversity hit, that foundation is less likely to crack.
