There are women who have asked why the man they are dating or married to become more laid back and uninterested than before there was a commitment. The answer is very plain and clear but most women do not see it. A man is like a warrior. If he is not out conquering he is not happy. If the battle is won he is not content util there is a new challenge. As women we must let our man be who he is, a warrior, that knight in shining armor. Do not expect that to change and you do not want that to change anyway. As long as a man is challenged, he will find the things he needs to do or say to make his princess or queen, if you will, happy. As a woman it is imperative that you maintain a certain amount of your previous life and more importantly your friends because as close as you may be with the man you love, he will defect. And when he does you will blame him. When in fact you may have been the one who took away his thunder. If you are paying attention you will know when this turn happens and be able to make adjustments in your own daily life to grow and flourish until he returns the warrior and knight that he is and that you really want him to be.
